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Coming Back, Fitting In
Nancy Mullane

Homecoming (David McNew/Getty Images) View the Slideshow It's a beautiful Saturday
afternoon at the Concord Senior Center. Colorful military medals, unit patches and
American flags fill the multi-purpose room. At the East Bay Veterans Fair, vets of the past
have come to help the newest of their group transition from being at war to being a civilian.
So far, more than a million troops have been sent to fight the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq.
Army studies have found at least 30 percent of those coming home suffer from
depression, anxiety or post-traumatic stress disorder. And the Government Accountability
Office says there are some 200,000 homeless veterans from current and past wars living
on American streets.
So veterans who've successfully made the transition hold events like this one. In one
room, employers from local businesses hand out business cards while in another larger
room, admissions counselors from nearby colleges and universities hold out financial aid
applications.

Sitting behind the University of California at Berkeley's table, four Iraq war vets have come
for the day. They're offered up as role models of soldiers-turned-students. But to hear
them tell it, the transition wasn't easy.

Jason is the most outspoken of the small group. He was in the Army for 10 years. One
was spent in Iraq. "Things had wrapped up. We went to King Fahad Air Base and got on a
plane," he explained. "I think it was actually a Delta airlines plane with stewardesses and
everything, and we were full of sand and armed."
Almost immediately after the plane landed at Fort Bragg, N.C., Jason says he had one
thing in mind, to wash away the dirt and sand that he says was everywhere, in his eyelids
and up his nose.

"I got off the plane, went home, and I took a metal folding chair and an icy six-pack of beer
and I got in the shower turned the shower on real hot," he said. "Got my metal folding chair
out. Unfolded it under the shower and sat there under the hot-ass shower and drank the
whole six-pack. Then I got dressed. I went off post. I got a great meal. Then I came back, I
crawled into my bed and I went to sleep."

But after the initial relief, Jason woke up to a harsher reality. He realized it wasn't going to
be so easy to wash off the fact that he'd been fighting for his life in Iraq. He couldn't just
change back to being a civilian. He was deeply troubled, ready to hit anyone over a small
misunderstanding.

"The expectation that you can move from one set of norms, a military set of norms to
civilian set of norms and function appropriately that expectation is absurd," he said.

"Veterans who have been in a fight and who go from a fight to their civilian home in just
couple of days feel like they've been dropped in from Mars," explained Jonathan Shay, a
psychologist at the Department of Veterans Affairs outpatient clinic in Boston, Mass. "You
have adapted both in mind and in the physiology of your body to the real situation of other
people trying to kill you … and often doing a doggone good job of it."

Shay said there's a giant chasm between the returning combat soldier and the people
waiting back at home. For instance, take a soldier's adaptation to driving on a highway in
Iraq. "Number one, you drive as fast as you can. Number two, you try and stay equidistant
from the two sides of the road. Now you bring that back home, and you have an automatic
setup for numerous moving traffic violations when you're driving your own car if you flip into
that surviving-in-Iraq mode."

Jason says he tried to tell his family and friends what he'd been through, and what he'd
done in Iraq. And why he was the person he'd become. But that didn't work.

"Everybody who's in the Army has the first time: 'What's a good story you have from the
service?' And you mention a little something you saw or did. You realize immediately to
never ever to do that again," he said. "That's the one mistake you never make again
because that's the first-hand experience. Nobody wants that. But at least be conscious of
the fact that people had that experience. Be aware of it."

A walk down just about any shopping street in America, there isn't much awareness of
war. Posters announce holiday sales, and bell-ringing Santas raise money for people
struggling economically, but the war? Not so much.

But there are people and organizations gearing up to help transitioning vets find their way.
Joseph Bobraw is a clinical psychologist and founder of the Coming Home Project, a non-
profit group of veterans, psychotherapists and interfaith leaders who provide daylong and
weekend retreats for returning vets and their families. There the team of professionals
offers treatment in psychological trauma, and they provide the vet with tools for stress
management.

"It was like the saying of Hillel," Bobraw says, "'if not now when, if not me then who?'

"We try to create the conditions for healing. And those conditions are safety, trust, a sense
of unconditional acceptance, compassion. And in terms of the stress management
techniques, we offer meditation."

For returning vets, unfamiliar with meditation, Bobraw says, the Coming Home Project
offers silent writing and drawing sessions. "The writing is a very rich exercise which takes
people even deeper, and then in the small groups they can either read what they've written
or show what they've drawn and discuss, listen to one another. And that takes people to
another level."

Meanwhile, deep in the Northern California Redwoods, another group is taking their
support of returning vets to another level. They're building a veterans' village, a four-story,
dormitory-style building that, beginning in January, will house up to 18 veterans from the
Iraq war.

When the building is finished, the veterans living here will get long-term counseling, help
finding jobs and applying to college. But most importantly, the village offers vets, who have
just gotten back from combat, a chance to sit quietly under towering Redwoods with other
vets who understand where they've been and what they've been through.

Mark Knipper will manage the project. In Vietnam he served in the Navy on a nuclear
submarine and now he says this is the least he can do.

"We were at war every time we went to sea," he said. "I really thought I was going to die.
I'm older now and I need to have some legacy to leave behind. What better way than to
help the folks coming home now and welcome them? I didn't get welcomed home until 30
years after I served."

But even with efforts by individuals and organizations to help returning vets in their
transition, psychologist Jonathan Shay says something critical is missing. Throughout
history, he said, from the Ancient Greeks to the Roman Legions, societies held communal
rites of purification. When their soldiers returned from battle, there was a ritual in which
the society accepted responsibility for what the fighter had been asked to do in their name.

"We really need to pay attention to the health of our democracy," he said, "and this is part
of the invisible substructure of democracy, how veterans are returned to civilian society
and how their future flourishing is nourished or destroyed."

Back to the Concord Veterans Fair. Jason said the American people sent the troops to war
and now it's their responsibility to bring them back and help them heal. "It's the civilians,
it's the society at large who bears the responsibility, not just the ethical obligation but the
moral obligation as well, to take the people who have served in this capacity that their
government has mandated, and then transition them back to being a civilian."

New Self-Assessments for Mental Health
Protect Anonymity, Offer Referrals for
Treatment

Want to know if you’re exhibiting symptoms of PTSD? Do you
suspect one of your buddies is abusing alcohol to cope with
combat or post-combat stress and could use professional help?
Has your spouse come home from deployment and returned a
different person?

Service members seeking answers to these types of questions can
now assess their health via a new set of self-administered,
anonymous screening tools offered as part of the Mental Health
Self-Assessment Program (MHSAP).  This DoD-funded program
provided by the non-profit organization, Screening for Mental Health,
Inc., covers a variety of psychological concerns and is especially
helpful to service members and families struggling with issues of
stress, anxiety, and depression during a post-deployment,
readjustment period.

"No one is immune from the stresses of everyday life, and
especially those associated with deployment,” explained Captain
Mark Paris, Ph.D., Deputy Director, Psychological Health Strategic
Operations, Force Health Protection and Readiness. “Here is an
easy, quick, and private way of finding out if seeking help might just
be a good idea."

The questionnaires are short, free, and offered 24 hours a day
online (at militarymentalhealth.org) and by phone (1-877-877-3647).
They will also be administered at special events held at
installations around the world. The six available questionnaires
cover depression, bipolar disorder, alcohol use, general anxiety
disorder, post traumatic stress disorder, and adolescent
depression.

Each questionnaire includes a demographics section asking for
info like age, marital status, military rank and status (if any),  and
deployment status. A series of questions follows that gathers
information on a person’s mental well-being. Some questions
focus on sleeping and eating habits, some on mood and attitude,
and other ask about a person’s ability to function and concentrate.

When linked together, the answers to these questions create a
picture of how an individual is feeling and whether they could benefit
from talking to a health professional. If an outcome results in a
recommendation to seek professional help, the individual receives
feedback on who to speak with and/or where to go, whether it’s a
chaplain, a clinic, a TRICARE provider, or the VA.  Appropriate
hotline numbers and info on finding support groups are also
provided.

Often service members hesitate to seek help for emotional issues.
They’re understandably concerned about the stigma associated
with psychological treatment. But these screening tests can be
taken on the service member’s time, at any time, and without
anyone else knowing. And the results of a screening can help
persuade a person to seek treatment. “Anonymity allows people
who are distressed to gauge where they are as far as their need for
help goes,” said Katherine Cruise, Director of Communications and
Marketing for Screening for Mental Health. “This is a discrete way to
take that first step toward treatment.”

Providing easy and anonymous screenings for psychological health
advances the Military Health System’s commitment to health and
resilience in the military community at large.  DoD and Screening for
Mental Health, Inc. are hopeful that this method of screening will
help service members and their families catch problems before
they grow into more serious conditions. “Our goal is to reach
service members and families who struggle with the stress of
military life,” said Cruise.
In addition to the self-assessment program, Screening for Mental
Health, Inc. created A Different Kind of Courage: Safeguarding and
Enhancing Your Psychological Health, an educational video
containing interviews with military personnel and families that
explores military mental health issues and offers advice on how to
approach a family member or friend who may need professional
help. The full video and its trailer can be streamed at Screening for
Mental Health’s Web site. “You want your spouse to come home
and just open their arms and just hug you,” says the wife of a
recently deployed Marine in the video. “But in fact, they’re dealing
with a lot.”

MHSAP questionnaires are available 24/7 at militarymentalhealth.
org and 1-877-877-3647.

Screening for Mental Health, Inc. offers free kits of materials to
installations wishing to hold mental health and alcohol education
events. The organization has similar kits for Family Readiness
Groups, Chaplains, and other groups that help military families
during deployment cycles.  You can order the kits online.
Armed Forces Financial Aid Grants
Army
The United State Army offers the Spouse Education Assistance Program (EAP) which is a grant for the
spouses of members who are serving in Europe, Korea, Japan, or Okinawa. There is a maximum of around
$350 per term.
Navy
The Spouse Tuition Aid Program (STAP) is for service member serving overseas in the Navy. Your spouse
may be going to college part or full-time. It does not matter whether he or she is working towards a
certificate or an undergrad or graduate degree
The undergraduate study maximum gift ranges from $300 for a semester and $1500 for the year. Graduate
numbers are $350 and $1750, respectively.
Air Force
The Air Force's General Henry H. Arnold Education Grant Program assists children and spouses of active
and deceased Air Force members. Qualifying applicants receive around $2000.
This grant is need-based and also factors in family income and the cost of tuition. It is the most popular Air
Force college financial aid program.
Marine
The Admiral Mike Boorda Seaman-to-Admiral Educational Assistance Program offers grants of up to
$2,000 per year for active duty service members accepted to the following programs:
Enlisted Commissioning Program
Marine Enlisted Commissioning Education Program
Medical Enlisted Commissioning Program
Coast Guard
The Coast Guard Mutual Assistance (CGMA) program offers $150 per year to help with college bills. This
money can be used for any family member, but cannot be used for tuition. Any other education related
expense such as books, housing, and supplies may be purchased with these funds.
Tests such as the SAT and other admission exams may be paid with the CGMA program. Coast Guard
employees and eligible spouses may be able to take the CLEP and DANTES tests at no charge
I have written two article/blogs on the bill that you might find interesting....
By Carissa Picard

First, one just about the Webb GI Bill and the second compares it to the Republican version being offered now as an
alternative...

A Comprehensive GI Bill: Reward or Incentive?


The problem with McCain's vision for expanding the GI Bill is that: a) it is contrary to the spirit of the every other wartime GI Bill; b) it fails to remedy the disparity in
educational benefits for current combat veterans vis a vis earlier combat veterans; c) it forces our fighting men and women to decide whether their lives are worth a
higher education--which, by the way, the post-Iraq military lifestyle and deployments make difficult to obtain while serving; and d) it turns a benefit into a bribe.
Senators Webb and Hagel have introduced the Post-9/11 Veterans' Educational Assistance Act (S22) to replace the existing GI Bill. S22 would increase educational
benefits for servicemembers to cover the entire cost of full-time in-state tuition as well as provide a monthly allowance for housing and a yearly stipend for books.

In order to fully appreciate why so many veterans and their advocates are dissatisfied with the existing educational benefits for military service, and why they support
S22, you have to understand the history and purpose of earlier GI Bills.
The first GI Bill was created by Congress in 1944 to help combat veterans successfully readjust to civilian life after returning from war. Congress provided veterans
with a variety of benefits, including educational assistance, home loan guaranties, and unemployment pay. Although the original GI Bill expired in 1952, a new GI
Bill was created, funded, and implemented for every military conflict following World War II.
The current GI Bill, and the basis for educational assistance today, was enacted in 1985 and is known as the Montgomery GI Bill ("MGIB"). Unlike previous GI Bills,
the MGIB was created as an incentive program to maintain an all volunteer military force.
As a result, there are significant differences between the original GI Bill and the MGIB. Under the MGIB, servicemembers are not automatically eligible for benefits
(although they have to affirmatively elect NOT to "buy-in" to the program), nor are all the costs of college attendance covered. In fact, the original GI Bill not only paid
for the cost and tuition of attending the college of the veterans choice, it also provided a stipend to live off of while enrolled. By contrast, today's maximum MGIB
benefits only covers 60 to 75 percent of the tuition at a state college.
Although 97 percent of today's servicemembers sign up for the MGIB when they enlist, only 8 percent of servicemembers used all of their educational benefits (over
the past ten years) and 30 percent failed to use any of their benefits at all.
Supporters of the 21st Century GI Bill argue that the peacetime goals (e.g., force maintenance instead of veteran readjustment) of the MGIB fails to acknowledge
the needs and sacrifices of our OEF/OIF wartime veterans. Moreover, since Congress has created a comprehensive GI Bill for every war since (and including)
WWII, they should do the same for OEF and OIF.
Senators Obama and Clinton both support this increase in benefits.
Senator McCain does not.
Last year, Acting Deputy Assistant Defense Secretary for Manpower and Personnel, Tom Bush, testified before the House Veterans Affairs subcommittee on
economic opportunity that "attracting qualified [military] recruits using large, across-the-board basic benefits incurs the risk that many who enter for the [G.I. Bill]
benefits will leave as soon as they can use them."

In supporting the Pentagon's opposition to Webb's proposed expansion to veterans' educational benefits, McCain shared its concern that servicemembers would
opt to go to college instead of stay in the military. Consequently, McCain stated that he and his colleagues in the Senate were working on an alternative version that
would expand benefits but add an additional commitment to the military in order to take advantage of those additional benefits.

The problem with McCain's vision for expanding the GI Bill is that: a) it is contrary to the spirit of the every other wartime GI Bill; b) it fails to remedy the disparity in
educational benefits for current combat veterans vis a vis earlier combat veterans; c) it forces our fighting men and women to decide whether their lives are worth a
higher education--which, by the way, the post-Iraq military lifestyle and deployments make difficult to obtain while serving; and d) it turns a benefit into a bribe.

Why can't we value their existing service enough to compensate them accordingly? Why can't we honor that service by fulfilling the promise of access to higher
education that was made when they enlisted initially?
Why is this even being debated?

How do you feel about this issue?
Let your public officials know how you feel.

Sorry, Guys, No Beer Money Included...

(Apr. 23, 2008) In response to Senator Webb's ambitious post-9/11 Veterans' Educational Assistance Act, Senate Republicans (led by Senator Burr) unveiled the
Enhancement of Recruitment, Retention and Readjustment Through Education Act. The names of the respective bills alone reveals the divergence in purposes
between the two bills.

The Republican bill would increase monthly GI Bill payments for active duty servicemembers from $1,100 to $1,500 as well as provide a yearly $500 book stipend
(S22 would provide a $1,000 yearly book stipend). The Republican bill would also allow the servicemember to transfer up to 18 months of benefits to his or her
spouse or child after 6 years of service or 36 months of benefits after 12 years of service, something that S22 lacks. Lastly, the bill make military academy and
ROTC graduates eligible for these benefits if they serve an additional five years beyond their initial service obligation.

Clearly the goal of the Republican bill is to provide enhanced benefits for servicemembers who make a career out of the military.

Senator Webb's bill, S22, however, seeks to bring the modern GI Bill in line with the spirit of previous GI Bills by expanding benefits for veterans regardless of
whether they choose to stay in after their initial service obligation. Thus, unlike the Republican version, there are no "strings attached" to the GI Bill expansion of
benefits. It also tries to ensure that these veterans have the means to actually USE these benefits--something the majority of contemporary veterans cannot do
because tuition costs generally exceed GI Bill payments and there is no housing assistance.

As a result, S22 provides a monthly housing stipend (based on an E-5's BAH) to facilitate working part-time and going to school full-time instead of vice versa.
Moreover, S22 would cover the cost of the most expensive public university in the state of residence for the veteran instead of setting an arbitrary cap on benefits
regardless of where the veteran is living and attending college. The goal is simply to economically empower (through access to higher education) the men and
women who have fought in the defense of this country; a tacit acknowledgment that the years the servicemember gave the military and our country has value in and
of itself. Prior to OEF/OIF, our elected officials believed this to be the case and the earlier GI Bills reflected that.

So one has to wonder why certain elected officials resist expanding educational benefits today, do they believe that the veterans of our modern wars in Iraq and
Afghanistan deserve less than the veterans of previous wars? The only difference between now and then is the absence of the draft. In my mind, the fact that our
modern military is comprised of volunteers (thus sparing millions of Americans from involuntary service) should actually warrant even greater appreciation (on
some level) rather than less. (Which makes me wonder, really, why we can't have S22 as well as the Republicans' transferability provisions.)

Further, for the Pentagon to suggest that upon receiving a higher education, these men and women would never return to the military does a disservice to those
veterans (as well as to the men and women still serving). The implication is that their service was motivated purely by a lack of other (read: better) opportunities as
opposed to a heightened sense of duty or a love of country that exceeds the average citizen.

I believe, however, that if we showed our voluntary military force that we are prepared, as a nation, to take all necessary steps to ensure that they can successfully
reintegrate and thrive in the civilian world (this includes physical and mental health care as well as other support services), the Pentagon will find many will return to
the military; not because they lack anywhere else to go, but because that is where they CHOOSE to be. Ultimately our entire force will be elevated and improved by
the advanced education of the members and their purely optional decision to remain in and/or return to the service.

Perhaps that is something Senator McCain and others should consider when choosing between these two competing bills.

I also take offense to the following characterization of our servicemembers from press conference by Senators Burr and Graham:

For active-duty members, monthly GI Bill benefits would rise Oct. 1 to $1,500, up from the current $1,101, enough to cover the average cost of a four-year public
college including room, board, tuition and fees, said Sen. Lindsey Graham of South Carolina, ranking Republican on the Senate Armed Services personnel
subcommittee.

Another $500 annual payment would help cover the cost of books and supplies.

Asked if he thought a living stipend was needed in addition to the basic benefit, Graham said room and board is factored into the cost. "We don't have beer money
included," he said.
Maybe it is just me, but I think a little more highly of our veterans than that.
I would hope Senator McCain does as well.

How do you feel about this issue?
Let your public officials know how you feel.
Carissa Picard, Esq.
254.213.1101 (o)
406.498.2134 (c)

Involve. Inform. Inspire.

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles... The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is
marred by dust and sweat and blood... who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement and who at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while
daring greatly. So that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat."
Theodore Roosevelt     


Post-War Suicides May Exceed Combat Deaths, U.S. Says
By Avram Goldstein

May 5 (Bloomberg) -- The number of suicides among veterans of wars in Iraq and Afghanistan may exceed the combat death toll because of
inadequate mental health care, the U.S. government's top psychiatric researcher said.
Community mental health centers, hobbled by financial limits, haven't provided enough scientifically sound care, especially in rural areas, said Thomas
Insel, director of the National Institute of Mental Health in Bethesda, Maryland. He briefed reporters today at the American Psychiatric Association's
annual meeting in Washington.
Insel echoed a Rand Corporation study published last month that found about 20 percent of returning U.S. soldiers have post- traumatic stress disorder
or depression, and only half of them receive treatment. About 1.6 million U.S. troops have fought in the two wars since October 2001, the report said.
About 4,560 soldiers had died in the conflicts as of today, the Defense Department reported on its Web site.
Based on those figures and established suicide rates for similar patients who commonly develop substance abuse and other complications of
post-traumatic stress disorder, ``it's quite possible that the suicides and psychiatric mortality of this war could trump the combat deaths,'' Insel said.
Post-traumatic stress disorder, known as PTSD, is the failure to cope after a major shock, such as an auto accident, a rape or combat, Insel said.
PTSD may remain dormant for months or years before it surfaces, and in about 10 percent of cases people never recover, he said.
go here for more
http://www.bloomberg.com

For many war veterans, blindness becomes a bitter legacy
THE WAR COMES HOME
Darryl E. Owens Sentinel Staff Writer

Sgt. David Kinney realized he had a problem when he struggled to read the e-mails his wife sent him in Afghanistan.
He suffered headaches and his vision grew steadily worse. Before long, the military shipped him home to DeLand. Now he's considered legally blind.
"I didn't get blown up or knocked out, or have a big piece of my head missing like some of these guys," said Kinney, who served in Orlando's 2nd
Battalion, 124th Infantry Regiment of the Florida National Guard. "You didn't see it coming."Kinney, 46, is among an increasing number of Iraq and
Afghanistan veterans losing their eyesight not because of bullet or bomb wounds but in what doctors suspect is a delayed reaction to the constant
pounding of nearby explosives.
His eyes aren't the problem. His brain is. (to read more click on the link below)


Darryl E. Owens can be reached at 407-420-5095 or dowens@orlandosentinel.com.

Firm 'misled' over malaria drug

Malaria is spread by mosquitoes
Cosmetics chain Neal's Yard has dropped the sale of a
homeopathic drug after watchdogs said customers were
being misled that it could treat malaria.

The Medicines and Healthcare products Regulatory Agency
(MHRA) said the product was "clearly intended to be
viewed as a treatment or preventive".

Neal's yard accepted that there was no clinical proof that
Malaria Officinalis 30c worked.

The move follows a BBC Inside Out investigation in Devon.

All homeopathic remedies are classed as medicines and
require prior authorisation by the MHRA, but Malaria
Officinalis 30c has none.

The presenter of Inside Out South West, Janine Jansen,
was sold the homeopathic remedy by Neal's Yard in Exeter
and was advised that she could use it to help deal with
malaria.

David Carter, head of the borderline team at the MHRA,
said: "This product was clearly intended to be viewed as a
treatment or preventive for malaria, which is a serious and
potentially life-threatening disease.

"We regard the promotion of an unauthorised,
self-medicating product for such a serious condition to be
potentially harmful to public health and misleading."
go here for more
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/devon/7385718.stm

MSC's Vice President, Pamela Stokes-Eggleston, and I spent two days on Capital Hill meeting congressional staff to promote DoD
Reintegration proposal for service members returning from combat tours.  We are losing too many service members and veterans to
suicide.  We believe that effective intervention before the service member separates from the military may help reduce the incidents of
self-inflicted harm
(such as attempted and actual suicide).

We also believe that if this proposal is drafted correctly and implemented, it may prevent some of these Personality Disorder Discharges.

Moreover, Congress needs to realize that with untreated PTSD, Americans pay for it one way or another, sooner or later.  We can either
pay for it in a larger DoD budget now (for mental health care and immediate crisis intervention and treatment) or we can pay for it later at
the state level and federal level as our at-risk veterans deteriorate and fail to successfully reintegrate into peacetime society (thus
placing increasing demands on our emergency services, social services, police services, etc.).

I would also like to emphasize that we (Military Spouses for Change) realize that our service members volunteered to join the military.  
However, the fact that they volunteered does not absolve our country from its role in, and responsibility for, the mental and physical
traumas that are inflicted upon them as a result of their service.  In fact, as we face a crisis in maintaining this all volunteer force, it is
critical that we now, more than ever, exhibit not only the ability, but the WILLINGNESS, to effectively identify and MEANINGFULLY treat
those traumas.

I am pleased to report a few Senators were actually receptive to our ideas.  I am in the process of writing up a white paper and sample
Dear Colleague letter.

I am contacting you for one or more of the following reasons:

1)  I found a statistic showing 5,500 soldiers were discharged in the past 4 years for misconduct; however, I believe that number is too
low/small.  Do any of you have any other figure or an idea outside of a FOIA request (time consuming) about finding our how many their
have been?  Do you know someone that could potentially help us get this figure?

2)  For those of you with an advocacy organization, would you be interested in learning more about our proposal and/or possibly being
apart of submitting it to members of Congress?  

3)  Is there a contact with another organization that you think I should be reaching out to?
If you are interested or can direct me to a better number, please call or email me as soon as you can.
Take care,
Carissa
Carissa Picard, Esq
President Military Spouses for Change

Involve. Inform. Inspire.

www.militaryspousesforchange.com
www.milspousepress.com


Bush Proclaims Sept. 28 Gold
Star Mother's Day
By Jim Garamone
American Forces Press Service

WASHINGTON, Sept. 25, 2008 -
President Bush has proclaimed Sept. 28 as Gold Star Mother's
Day this year. The day honors the mothers of men and women
who were killed in the line of duty while serving the nation in
the armed forces.
Congress designated the last Sunday in September as "Gold
Star Mother's Day" in 1936, authorizing and requesting the
president to issue a proclamation in its observance each year.

"Throughout our history, the men and women of the armed
forces have put our nation's security before their own, doing
their duty in the face of grave danger," Bush wrote in the
proclamation issued by the White House yesterday. "On Gold
Star Mother's Day, we pay solemn tribute to the mothers of the
patriots lost serving this great nation."

The term Gold Star Mother comes from World War I. In that
war, families with someone in the services placed a blue star in
the window of their homes. If the servicemember died on active
duty, they replaced the blue star with a gold one, indicating the
sacrifice.

In 1929, a group of women who had lost sons or daughters in
the Great War formed the American Gold Star Mothers in
Washington, D.C. The group now includes mothers "whose
sons and daughters served and died in the line of duty in the
armed forces of the United States of America or its allies, or
died as a result of injuries sustained in such service,"
according to their charter.

"Gold Star Mothers inspire our nation with their deep devotion
to family and country," Bush wrote. "These extraordinary
women serve their communities, dedicate their time to helping
members of our armed forces and veterans, and bring comfort
and hope to families whose loved ones laid down their lives in
the defense of our liberty. Nothing can compensate for their
sacrifice and loss, yet Gold Star Mothers demonstrate
tremendous courage and resolve while working to preserve
the memory and legacy of all our fallen heroes."

Bush asked for God's blessings on these Gold Star families
and called on all Americans to fly the U.S. flag on this special
day. "I also encourage the American people to display the flag
and hold appropriate ceremonies as a public expression of our
nation's sympathy and respect for our Gold Star Mothers," he
wrote.

Gov. Schwarzenegger Signs
Legislation to Create
the Gold Star Family License Plate

Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger today announced
he has signed SB
1455 by Senator Dave Cogdill (R-Modesto),
authorizing the creation of
the California Gold Star Family License Plate. The
legislation paves
the way for families who have lost loved ones in
current and prior
wars to obtain license plates honoring the sacrifices
their families
have endured.

"I am very pleased to sign this bill to honor the
sacrifices made
by our servicemen and women and their families,"
said Governor
Schwarzenegger. "When you see one of these
license plates on the
road, think about those who have given their lives to
defend our way
of life, and keep their families in your thoughts and
prayers."

The Department of Veterans Affairs and the
Department of Motor
Vehicles will fund the start up costs of the Gold Star
Family License
Plates using private donations, allowing the state to
honor Gold Star
Families without placing any burden on California
taxpayers. Also,
as a token of the state's appreciation for their
sacrifice, the bill
provides a special waiver of fees for Gold Star
Families.

SB 1455 authorizes the creation of the Gold Star
Family License
Plate and authorizes a family member of a member
of the U.S. Armed
Forces killed on active duty to apply for the plate
containing a gold
star and the words "Gold Star Family."
"CARING FOR SOLDIERS"
AWARD